She will introduce you to the church. He could never tolerate my work schedule, so I became a stay at home mom. If you really care and think this is the lifestyle you wanted then go ahead. What I meant was I'm wondering if it will get noticeably easier in terms of his schedule in the next few years and right after he finishes, or if it will always feel like this when it comes to being with someone in his profession. There will be sacrifices but I am hopeful. Same boat, if we have plans, he usually ends up. Dating a resident is hard - it was hard to realize that I can't come first, or even second, in this relationship right now. That will most likely be the deal breaker for her. But the lies sting some people.
People respect him more and belittle him less He seems just a little bit happier - which makes a difference at home. We have all felt it and our house seems absolutely different. We met at home just before he went back to school and even though we only had a week together, it was whirlwind and we already spoke of marriage and kids. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. I still love my Heavenly Father and my Savior. The point made was that a parallel can be drawn between interfaith and interracial marriages. We met when I was 19 and have been together only the past 4 years but the love has never died. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. Sometimes I complain to my kids and to my husband.
BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. He says he hasn't loved me for the last 2 years and was only staying for the sake of the kids. That is a reality you can't change. And, as I was writing the reply, above, those thoughts went through my head. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me. Most of all it's lonely. I think about leaving all the time now because by myself there are no disappointments. That is a hard truth. There are many catholic families with these three main ethnic groups within it. The woman gets fidgety after three days on vacation.
It all depends on the girl. We often have issues because of his relocation every year. I bring him food I make sure he's happy.