Our editorial content is not influenced by any commissions we receive. In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. Most people assume that the dude just has tons of money, and that might be true, but a lot of times cash has absolutely nothing to do with it. First of all, good looks are subjective. I usually check out the table of homies laughing and having a really good time or the crispy dude wearing the buttery new Wallabees. Women are drawn to guys that carry themselves proudly, not the moody, depressed heads that slump in the corner with their hood pulled up. Which brings me to my next point All that dopamine our bodies release makes us crave it like a drug. Nothing gets a chick more open or at ease than humor.

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